The Friend by Sigrid Nunez

Published 2018 · 218 pages · 54,500 words · about 4 hours at an average pace · Literary Fiction

How hard is The Friend to read?

The Friend scores 54 out of 100 for difficulty on ReadingRate, making it quite demanding. The score is a weighted composite of nine measures: four of how hard the prose is to parse, five of how hard the meaning is to extract.

Vocabulary: 50 out of 100
Nunez writes in clear, contemplative prose that incorporates literary reference and the vocabulary of grief. The language is accessible while carrying intellectual and emotional weight.
Sentence structure: 52 out of 100
Sentences are often short and fragmentary, building through accumulated observations and digressions. The prose has the rhythm of a grieving mind, circling and associating.
Abstraction: 58 out of 100
The novel explores grief, friendship, and how animals can serve as vessels for human connection. These themes emerge through the narrator's relationship with the Great Dane.
Information density: 50 out of 100
Literary references, New York apartment life, and the textures of grief layer through the slim narrative. Nunez creates density through accumulated observation and quotation.
Narrative indirection: 55 out of 100
The narrator reflects on grief and writing without conventional plot. The reader must engage with meditation rather than story, following association rather than action.
Symbolic density: 58 out of 100
Apollo the dog becomes symbolic of the grief that cannot speak but demands care. The apartment becomes symbolic of the constrained life grief imposes.
Ironic distance: 55 out of 100
Nunez maintains gentle ironic distance from the narrator's obsessive care for the dog while taking her grief seriously. The novel is tender and wry simultaneously.
Resolution withholding: 55 out of 100
The narrator finds equilibrium with Apollo, but grief continues. Nunez offers the consolation of companionship without pretending it resolves loss.
Structural complexity: 52 out of 100
The novel proceeds through meditation and digression rather than plot. The structure is accessible but unconventional, organized by the movement of grieving thought.

How The Friend is regarded

The Friend holds a literary regard score of 60 out of 100, weighing its place in the canon, its critical reception, its influence on other writers, and the standing of its author. Regard is measured separately from difficulty: a demanding book is not necessarily an admired one.

About the author

Sigrid Nunez